Saturday, December 14, 2013

Premature self-congratulations

We got home very late last night.  On the way home from the airport, Hub and I were congratulating ourselves on being so very organized and that the whole trip had been without any major hitches.

I was jet-lagged and exhausted.  The 3 hour time change from Miami to Seattle meant that we got home at 2:30 a.m. Miami time.  So I was already mentally depleted.

As we unpacked, I suddenly realized that somewhere along the line (which could have been anywhere in the last 5 days of hotel changes and cab rides), I apparently misplaced, lost, or whatever you want to call it, a bag that contained all the gifts we had purchased along the way for our friends.  Gifts from Mexico, Costa Rica, and Colombia.  I've called the hotels where we stayed with no success.  And if I left it in a cab, then of course it will never be found.

When I realized we didn't have the bag, I pretty much lost it.  I cried...wept actually.  We're not talking a lot of money, but it still hurts and I went to bed pretty despondent.

So that has put a damper on my happiness at being home.

I'm on my way now to get my dog and I hope that will lift my spirits.

Update:  I just went and got Buster, who was SOOO glad to see me.  He stayed on my lap the whole time I was visiting with his Auntie P before we went home.  Every time Olive would come over, B would lick my hand as if to say..."You're MY Mom, don't pay attention to HER."

On the way home I was listening to a program on the radio...I think God was speaking directly to me.  The program was about "Mentally Strong People - Thirteen Things They Avoid."  The 4th one was They Don't Waste Energy on Things They Can’t Control.  I'm paraphrasing, but it went something like this:  "Mentally strong people don’t waste a lot of time being upset about traffic jams, lost luggage, etc.  They recognize these are things are generally beyond their control. In a bad situation, they recognize that the one thing they CAN control is their own response or attitude." 

Wow, how much more timely can a message be?  Yes, I lost the bag, but it's not the end of the world.  So, I'm already feeling better...and as Hub told me last night (but I wasn't in a listening mood at the time)...It's JUST STUFF!

It feels great to be home!  

2 comments:

  1. Glad you are home... there really is no place like it. Sorry that you lost the package but you are right... it is just stuff and you had a great trip otherwise :)

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  2. Yes, a timely message. It sucks to lose the bag and all the carefully chosen gifts. Acknowledge that it does indeed suck, and then move on. I'm glad you're home and I bet Buster is glad too!

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